In considering the many teachings of the Bahá'í Faith, one that I like very much, is that I am responsible for me. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR ME. I am not to be held accountable for the actions of Joe Bloggs down the street. I am not responsible for my spouse. When my children grow up, they are in charge of themselves and make their own decisions.

As an individual, I really only am expected to control me. As a parent, I have certain responsibilities to my children in that respect....