It is those little unconcious things that we do when we are not even thinking that contribute greatly to a perception of who we are. It is those little things that happen when I am not making a conscious effort that I would like to be a bit more on top of and in control of. It is so much eaier to behave in a model way when you are not tired or stressed.

For me it is the general untidiness that surrounds me that annoys me most. I have a tidy day. I do loads, order is apparent....