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12 Step Programs
They have provided the pathway to finding god and a spiritual way of life for so many, such as myself, who when first introduced to the program, were spiritually bankrupt. Through the program I have been reacquainted with the spiritual open mindedness that brought me home to the Bahai Faith.

In a 12 Step program (such as AA, NA & DA), one would take a moral inventory of themselves (step 4) and then move on to one of the most pivotal steps within the program known as Step 5. This step as read is, "Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs". My personal experience with this step is after having done it with someone I have trust and respect, I obtain a great feeling of humble gratitude at the realization that I am not unique. I am not the horrible monster I had thought myself to be and I now have a sense of release and may now let go of the guilt and self loathing that had followed me for so long.


Kitáb-I-Aqdas.
Now I have finally managed to MAKE the time to read the Kitáb-I-Aqdas. Almost immediately on page 2 (introduction) it reads that there "is a law prohibiting the confession of sins to a fellow human being...".

I will eventually get to that law by reading the Kitáb-I-Aqdas further to where it is mentioned — but this law has me so intensely curious due to my 17 years of involvement in 12 step programs.

I may gain further understanding on this issue if someone more familiar with this law could provide me with it's location within the Kitáb-I-Aqdas and possibly their understanding.

Overall Discussion
So I guess the discussion I am seeking would be on how a Bahai can work this step (Step 5) in a 12 step program without violating the laws of the Kitáb-I-Aqdas.

Thank you in advance for your participation and input on this tread.
For further understanding and a list on the 12 Steps you can read them at 12step.org

arthra

Thanks for offering this very important question... as God in His mercy has provided a response to it from no less an institution than the Universal House of Justice:


9 November 1987

Dear Baha'i Friend,

In response to your letter of 28 July 1987, we have been asked by the Universal House of Justice to quote below for your benefit from letters written on its behalf concerning Alcoholics Anonymous.


The malign effects of the widespread use of alcoholic beverages upon almost every society in the world cannot but confirm every Baha'i in the wisdom of Baha'u'llah in banning its use, thereby shielding faithful believers from a legion of difficulties . . .
The Baha'i community should feel free to call upon such agencies as Alcoholics Anonymous for assistance and upon public agencies who work with the problem, but must realize that the greatest healing of this social and individual disease is God's Cause which in its fulness will eliminate the causes of alcoholism . . .
(From letter to a National Assembly dated 8 August 1979)

The Universal House of Justice . . . has instructed us to say that there is no objection to Baha'is being members of Alcoholics Anonymous, which is an association that does a great deal of good in assisting alcoholics to overcome their lamentable condition. The sharing of experiences which the members undertake does not conflict with the Baha'i prohibition on the confession of sins; it is more in the nature of the therapeutic relationship between a patient and a psychiatrist.

(From letter to an individual believer dated 26 August 1986)

Your memo of 28 May enclosing xxxx's letter concerning confession has been received. There does not appear to be any conflict between Step 5 of the Alcoholics Anonymous program and the Baha'i teachings concerning confession.

(From letter to a Local Spiritual Assembly, 4 June 1987)


The references within the Faith to prohibition of confession pertain to either public confession as a part of religious rites or to private confession to seek absolution from sins. A letter written on behalf of the Guardian states,

" . . .. If we spontaneously desire to acknowledge we have been wrong in something, or that we have some fault of character, and ask another person's forgiveness or pardon, we are quite free to do so."

The attached quotation from the compilation on consultation appears to be relevant. It is concerned with solving personal problems, and the final paragraph deals with discussing a problem with the intent of finding a solution. The Alcoholics Anonymous program seems clearly to be concerned with the solution of the problem as opposed to public confession or confession to seek absolution of sin.

If this does not provide a sufficient answer to xxxx's question, please don't hesitate to let us know.



"Your letter of 14 February 1973 enquiring about the uses of Baha'i consultation has been received.
"This is, of course, a matter in which rigidity should be avoided.

"When a believer has a problem concerning which he must make a decision, he has several courses open to him. If it is a matter that affects the interests of the Faith he should consult with the appropriate Assembly or committee, but individuals have many problems which are purely personal and there is no obligation upon them to take such problems to the institution of the Faith; indeed, when the needs of the teaching work are of such urgency it is better if the friends will not burden their Assemblies with personal problems that they can solve by themselves.

"A Baha'i who has a problem may wish to make his own decision upon it after prayer and after weighing all the aspects of it in his own mind; he may prefer to seek the counsel of individual friends or of professional counsellors such as his doctor or lawyer so that he can consider such advice when making his decision; or in a case where several people are involved, such as a family situation, he may want to gather together those who are affected so that they may arrive at a collective decision. There is also no objection whatever to Baha'i's asking a group of people to consult together on a problem facing him.
"It should be borne in mind that all consultation is aimed at arriving at a solution to a problem and is quite different from the sort of group baring of the soul that is popular in some circles these days and which borders on the kind of confession that is forbidden in the Faith. On the subject of confession the Guardian's secretary wrote on his behalf to an individual believer: "We are forbidden to confess to any persons, as do the Catholics to their priests, our sins and shortcomings, or to do so in public, as some religious sects do. However, if we spontaneously desire to acknowledge we have been wrong in something, or that we have some fault of character, and ask another person's forgiveness or pardon, we are quite free to do so. The Guardian wants to point out, however, that we are not obliged to do so. It rests entirely with the individual.'"

(From a letter dated March 19, 1973 to a National Spiritual Assembly)



Source:


http://bahai-library.org/uhj/alcoholics.anonymous.html