Heterosexuals are an anomole

aidan · 07-27-2011, 05:29 AM

Good now that ive got your attention.I have read so much in this forum of people who are/were (i dont know) gay and are clearly suffering or struggling to some degree or other.Often resulting in passionate discussion leaving some people obviously in a quagmire.I thank God that I am a heterosexual man who has never been burdened with the sense of guilt and ensuing pain that so many homosexual men seem to be tormented by.Is it at all possible that by discussing less the challenges of homosexuality and thinking about other things some people may be less reminded of previous/present torments?I ask this with the greatest love.For those who are struggling with sexuality homo/hetero remember that God and the Holy Spirit are very close to us loving us dearly when we suffer.I presently am suffering greatly to the point of spiritual torment from soul endangering lomliness.My marriage ended suddenly 14 mnths ago and i am floundering in the greatest darkest despair.I have been part of a family for so long and cant adapt to living alone.I beg your prayers dearly beloved.I long for a partner to be at my side and share my life once again

Rani · 07-27-2011, 05:31 PM

I'll say a prayer for you Aidan.

While finding fellowship online is good and all, I hope you are also getting out and about, and meeting people in person. In-person companionship is always the most fulfilling, in my opinion.
If your community is small, is there a neighbouring community or a bigger town you can visit in order to make new friends and hopefully find a partner too?
Warmest regards, D.

07-27-2011, 05:29 AM	#1
aidan Senior Member Joined: Jul 2011 From: n ireland Posts: 413	Heterosexuals are an anomole Good now that ive got your attention.I have read so much in this forum of people who are/were (i dont know) gay and are clearly suffering or struggling to some degree or other.Often resulting in passionate discussion leaving some people obviously in a quagmire.I thank God that I am a heterosexual man who has never been burdened with the sense of guilt and ensuing pain that so many homosexual men seem to be tormented by.Is it at all possible that by discussing less the challenges of homosexuality and thinking about other things some people may be less reminded of previous/present torments?I ask this with the greatest love.For those who are struggling with sexuality homo/hetero remember that God and the Holy Spirit are very close to us loving us dearly when we suffer.I presently am suffering greatly to the point of spiritual torment from soul endangering lomliness.My marriage ended suddenly 14 mnths ago and i am floundering in the greatest darkest despair.I have been part of a family for so long and cant adapt to living alone.I beg your prayers dearly beloved.I long for a partner to be at my side and share my life once again

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07-27-2011, 05:31 PM	#2
Rani Senior Member Joined: May 2011 From: Australia Posts: 242	I'll say a prayer for you Aidan. While finding fellowship online is good and all, I hope you are also getting out and about, and meeting people in person. In-person companionship is always the most fulfilling, in my opinion. If your community is small, is there a neighbouring community or a bigger town you can visit in order to make new friends and hopefully find a partner too? Warmest regards, D.