The thing that I find a bit strange about this question is that you aren't answering it about yourself. I think that everyone in this forum has a logical right and curiosity to know if the forum moderators (Daniel and Jafar) are Baha'is in good standing or not and to have some general idea of what their personal spiritual history is.
I have always been a Baha'i in good standing myself and I am a child of Baha'i parents.
Although Baha'i teachings strongly advocate that parents should teach the Baha'i Faith to their children, in the Baha'i Faith there is no such thing as being "born a Baha'i" because we have the principle of independent investigation of truth.
I declared in February of 1983, right before the Intercalary days and the Fast! But, I resigned in 1996. Than it seems that Baha'u'llah called me back and I have come home again just recently. I too fee that I fall far, far short of the calling to be a true Baha'i. I am striving, praying, and meditating on the Writings each day, to further deepen in the teachings, that I might, even in a small way, be an instrument for the Cause of Baha'u'llah.